What about you?
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Aurora Guxholli
Abstract
In psychotherapy, the envisioned change in patient’s feelings, thoughts and behaviour often targets their self-experience. This threatens simultaneously the patient’s face and the therapeutic relation. We focus on face-threats in transformative question-answer sequences where therapists question the patient’s face by shifting the focus of talk on patient’s self and in response patients confront the dilemma of having to choose between saving their face or the relation with the therapist. Data come from 47 video recorded psychotherapy sessions conducted in Albanian language. Analysis shows that patients resist the transformation but only after making considerable efforts to save both their face and the therapeutic relation. We conclude that challenging the patient’s self-experience is a delicate task in terms of the therapeutic relation.
Abstract
In psychotherapy, the envisioned change in patient’s feelings, thoughts and behaviour often targets their self-experience. This threatens simultaneously the patient’s face and the therapeutic relation. We focus on face-threats in transformative question-answer sequences where therapists question the patient’s face by shifting the focus of talk on patient’s self and in response patients confront the dilemma of having to choose between saving their face or the relation with the therapist. Data come from 47 video recorded psychotherapy sessions conducted in Albanian language. Analysis shows that patients resist the transformation but only after making considerable efforts to save both their face and the therapeutic relation. We conclude that challenging the patient’s self-experience is a delicate task in terms of the therapeutic relation.
Kapitel in diesem Buch
- Prelim pages i
- Table of contents v
- Practices of relationship management in organized helping 1
- Forging relationships in psychotherapeutic interaction 27
- Doing We – Working alliance in psychotherapeutic relationships 51
- What about you? 79
- So let’s say men can’t understand that much 105
- Relationship management by means of solution-oriented questions in German psychodiagnostic interviews 127
- The role of semi-responsive answers for relationship building in coaching 151
- Working alliance and client design as discursive achievements in first sessions of executive coaching 171
- Relationship building in oncological doctor-patient interaction 195
- Practices of relationship building in Hungarian primary care 221
- Building (dis-)affiliative medical relationships through interactional practices of knowledge management 243
- How are you getting on with these? 265
- Twitter as a helping medium 287
- Relational dimensions of organized helping 315
- Index 329
Kapitel in diesem Buch
- Prelim pages i
- Table of contents v
- Practices of relationship management in organized helping 1
- Forging relationships in psychotherapeutic interaction 27
- Doing We – Working alliance in psychotherapeutic relationships 51
- What about you? 79
- So let’s say men can’t understand that much 105
- Relationship management by means of solution-oriented questions in German psychodiagnostic interviews 127
- The role of semi-responsive answers for relationship building in coaching 151
- Working alliance and client design as discursive achievements in first sessions of executive coaching 171
- Relationship building in oncological doctor-patient interaction 195
- Practices of relationship building in Hungarian primary care 221
- Building (dis-)affiliative medical relationships through interactional practices of knowledge management 243
- How are you getting on with these? 265
- Twitter as a helping medium 287
- Relational dimensions of organized helping 315
- Index 329