Chapters in this book

1. Frontmatter i
2. Contents vii
3. Introduction 1
4. 1. From Boys to Men: Learning to Love Women and Money 30
5. 2. Expensive Intimacies: Courtship, Marriage, and Fatherhood 59
6. 3. “Money Problem”: Work, Class, Consumption, and Men’s Social Status 86
7. 4. “Ahhheee Club”: Money, Intimacy, and Male Peer Groups 121
8. 5. Masculinity Gone Awry: Intimate Partner Violence, Crime, and Insecurity 144
9. 6. Becoming an Elder, Burying One’s Father 172
10. Conclusion 206
11. Acknowledgments 227
12. Notes 233
13. References 235
14. Index 253