Chapters in this book

1. Frontmatter i
2. Contents v
3. Preface vii
4. Anthony 1
5. Tell Our Stories 7
6. Why Am I Gay? 17
7. First Sexual Memory 31
8. First Arousal 37
9. Sex Play 45
10. First Crush 59
11. Who’s That Girl? 65
12. Who’s That Boy? 71
13. The Joy of Puberty 81
14. OMG! A Wet Dream 111
15. Masturbation 115
16. First Girl Sex 125
17. First Boy Sex 139
18. I’m Gay—Prob ably, Certainly 159
19. Something to Tell You 175
20. Hey Mom, Dad, Bro, Sis 191
21. Mostly Gay 215
22. First Love 225
23. He’s My Soul Man 251
24. Being Young and Gay in America 263
25. Postscript: Anthony’s Return 283
26. Appendix: Methods 297
27. Notes 303
28. Acknowledgments 315
29. Index 317