提要
在强调着上下二元的隔代关系的华裔家庭中,孩童常被要求服从家长的命令与指导,在这样的意识形态下,孩童与生俱来的自尊心常常被忽略。而在追求双方平等亲子关系的移民家庭中,保障孩童享有个人自尊、自主与自由。虽说前者(上下二元家庭)常被偏重于宏观概述的文献误解为家庭纷争的集中营,但本文利用录音录像的田野调查所得的语料,探讨分析家庭冲突是如何因中美价值体系上的相互抵触而在后者(双方平等家庭)产生。借由微观细腻地描述大洛杉矶地区华裔移民家庭语言的真实使用,本文企图弥补当代华裔主流研究的缺失。
Abstract
Whereas the 1.5 Chinese-American children in the ‘American-acculturated’ immigrant families are privileged to enjoy their individual freedom and self-esteem, the children in the ‘Chinese-acculturated’ families are, to a great extent, deprived of the privilege. The latter group of children is found to be raised in ways that regularly downplay the significance of their individualism, and uphold epistemic and power differentiation amongst the kin members in the families. Conflicting with the mainstream ideology of egalitarianism in the U.S., the value of hierarchy (habitually practiced in the ‘Chinese-acculturated’ immigrant families) is concluded to account for frequent familial battles in Chinese-American households by the prior quantitative-oriented literature. To qualitatively inform public dialogue on kinship relationship in Chinese-American households, this paper integrates the theoretical frameworks of conversation analysis and ethnography of communication to meticulously demonstrate ways in which (1) harmonious kinship is naturalistically practiced in ‘Chinese-acculturated’ immigrant families, and (2) hostile kinship is habitually orchestrated in ‘American-acculturated’ families.
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