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“We Were Not at School Today”: First-Person Pronouns and Discursive Construction of Identities by Emerging Middle-Class Chinese Parents

  • Yanmei Han

    Yanmei Han is an associate professor at the School of English Education in Guangdong University of Foreign Studies (GDUFS), China. She is also associated with the Center for Linguistics and Applied Linguistics of GDUFS as a part-time researcher. Her research interests include language and identity, language and culture, and multilingualism.

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    and Jianping Chen

    Jianping Chen is a professor at the Center for Linguistics and Applied Linguistics of Guangdong University of Foreign Studies. His research interests include sociolinguistics, discourse analysis, and intercultural studies.

Published/Copyright: December 10, 2019

Abstract

In the process of China’s dynamic social changes over the past decades, the young-parent identity construction of an emerging middle class and the resulting changes of social-cultural values in this context have attracted the attention of academic research in recent years. With the focus on the discursive construction of parent identity, this study examines the utilization of first-person pronouns in three different interactional contexts, namely, parent-teacher interaction, parent-parent interaction, and parent-child interaction. The study further explores the patterns of alignment between the parents and their children, parents and teachers of their children, and peer parents during the process of identity construction, followed by a discussion of the implication that young, emerging middle-class Chinese parents fundamentally shape themselves as “concerned” and “involved” parents and the change of values between collectivity and agency. The study not only demonstrates the dynamic and pluralistic nature of parent identity but also deepens our understanding of the indexical roles of first-person pronouns in the discursive construction of emerging middle-class Chinese parent identity and its relationship with the recent social-cultural changes in the Chinese context.

About the authors

Yanmei Han

Yanmei Han is an associate professor at the School of English Education in Guangdong University of Foreign Studies (GDUFS), China. She is also associated with the Center for Linguistics and Applied Linguistics of GDUFS as a part-time researcher. Her research interests include language and identity, language and culture, and multilingualism.

Jianping Chen

Jianping Chen is a professor at the Center for Linguistics and Applied Linguistics of Guangdong University of Foreign Studies. His research interests include sociolinguistics, discourse analysis, and intercultural studies.

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Acknowledgments

The present study is a part of the Chinese MOE Key Research Project of Humanities and Social Science (Project No.: 16JJD740006) conducted by the Centre for Linguistics and Applied Linguistics, Guangdong University of Foreign Studies. We would like to acknowledge the contribution of Professor Tao Xiong and the anonymous reviewers for their insightful comments and suggestions on earlier drafts of this article. Special thanks should also go to the editors of Chinese Journal of Applied Linguistics for their diligent work.

Published Online: 2019-12-10
Published in Print: 2019-09-25

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