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    CHAPTER 8. Manhood and the Burdens of Intimacy
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        Elizabeth Miles
        
Chapters in this book
- Frontmatter i
- Contents vii
- Acknowledgments xi
- CHAPTER 1. Introduction. The Stakes of Intimacy in Contemporary Japan 1
- CHAPTER 2. Students Outside the Classroom 35
- CHAPTER 3. Resisting Intervention, (En)trusting My Partner 54
- CHAPTER 4. Romantic and Sexual Intimacy before and beyond Marriage 73
- CHAPTER 5. What Can Be Said? 91
- CHAPTER 6. My Husband Is a Good Man When He Doesn’t Hit Me 112
- CHAPTER 7. Power, Intimacy, and Irregular Employment in Japan 129
- CHAPTER 8. Manhood and the Burdens of Intimacy 148
- CHAPTER 9. Gender Identity, Desire, and Intimacy 164
- CHAPTER 10. Beyond Blood Ties 181
- CHAPTER 11. Making Ordinary, If Not Ideal, Intimate Relationships 199
- CHAPTER 12. Connections, Conflicts, and Experiences of Intimacy in Japanese-Australian Families 219
- CHAPTER 13. Reflections on Fieldwork 236
- Contributors 261
- Index 265
Chapters in this book
- Frontmatter i
- Contents vii
- Acknowledgments xi
- CHAPTER 1. Introduction. The Stakes of Intimacy in Contemporary Japan 1
- CHAPTER 2. Students Outside the Classroom 35
- CHAPTER 3. Resisting Intervention, (En)trusting My Partner 54
- CHAPTER 4. Romantic and Sexual Intimacy before and beyond Marriage 73
- CHAPTER 5. What Can Be Said? 91
- CHAPTER 6. My Husband Is a Good Man When He Doesn’t Hit Me 112
- CHAPTER 7. Power, Intimacy, and Irregular Employment in Japan 129
- CHAPTER 8. Manhood and the Burdens of Intimacy 148
- CHAPTER 9. Gender Identity, Desire, and Intimacy 164
- CHAPTER 10. Beyond Blood Ties 181
- CHAPTER 11. Making Ordinary, If Not Ideal, Intimate Relationships 199
- CHAPTER 12. Connections, Conflicts, and Experiences of Intimacy in Japanese-Australian Families 219
- CHAPTER 13. Reflections on Fieldwork 236
- Contributors 261
- Index 265