23. INSIDE: Family Friends

Chapters in this book

1. Frontmatter i
2. Dedication v
3. Contents vii
4. Author’s Note xi
5. Map of Yugoslavia xii
6. Prologue xiii
7. Acknowledgments xix
8. Context xxi
9. Part I: War
10. Sarajevo’s Olympic soccer field, once the site of throngs cheering for elite athletes, now hosted silent and crude markers for the dead. 1
11. Section 1: Officialdom
12. 1. INSIDE: “Esteemed Mr. Carrington” 3
13. 2. OUTSIDE: A Convenient Euphemism 4
14. 3. INSIDE: Angels and Animals 8
15. 4. OUTSIDE: Carter and Conscience 10
16. 5. INSIDE: “If I Left, Everyone Would Flee” 12
17. 6. OUTSIDE: None of Our Business 15
18. 7. INSIDE: Silajdžić 17
19. 8. OUTSIDE: Unintended Consequences 18
20. 9. INSIDE: The Bread Factory 19
21. 10. OUTSIDE: Elegant Tables 21
22. Section 2: Victims or Agents?
23. 11. INSIDE: The Unspeakable 24
24. 12. OUTSIDE: The Politics of Rape 26
25. 13. INSIDE: An Unlikely Soldier 28
26. 14. OUTSIDE: Happy Fourth of July 30
27. 15. INSIDE: Women on the Side 34
28. 16. OUTSIDE: Contact Sport 35
29. Section 3: Deadly Stereotypes
30. 17. INSIDE: An Artificial War 37
31. 18. OUTSIDE: Clashes 38
32. 19. INSIDE: Crossing the Fault Line 39
33. 20. OUTSIDE: “The Truth about Goražde” 41
34. 21. INSIDE: Loyal 43
35. 22. OUTSIDE: Pentagon Sympathies 46
36. 23. INSIDE: Family Friends 48
37. 24. OUTSIDE: Extremists 50
38. Section 4: Fissures and Connections
39. 25. INSIDE: Family Ties 55
40. 26. OUTSIDE: Federation 56
41. 27. INSIDE: School Days 59
42. 28. OUTSIDE: Forces and Counterforces 63
43. 29. INSIDE: Blood 66
44. 30. OUTSIDE: Trade-offs 68
45. 31. INSIDE: Grim Lullaby 71
46. Section 5: The End Approaches
47. 32. OUTSIDE: Security and Cooperation 73
48. 33. INSIDE: Sarajevo Cinderella 76
49. 34. OUTSIDE: Failure at Srebrenica 77
50. 35. INSIDE: Magbula’s Parrot 82
51. 36. OUTSIDE: The Accident 85
52. 37. INSIDE: Boys Pretending 87
53. 38. OUTSIDE: Bombs and Bluffs 88
54. 39. INSIDE: Side by Side 90
55. 40. OUTSIDE: Decisions at Dayton 92
56. Part II : Peace
57. Section 6: After Dayton
58. 41. INSIDE: Morning Has Broken 97
59. 42. OUTSIDE: Waiting for Christmas 99
60. 43. INSIDE: Serb Exodus 101
61. 44. OUTSIDE: Refugees in Austria 103
62. 45. INSIDE: Refugees at the Residence 105
63. 46. OUTSIDE: Diplobabble 107
64. 47. INSIDE: Displaced 107
65. 48. OUTSIDE: Sowing and Reaping 110
66. 49. INSIDE: Banja Luka Bitterness 113
67. Section 7: Imperfect Justice
68. 50. OUTSIDE: War Criminals 117
69. 51. INSIDE: Uncatchable 122
70. 52. OUTSIDE: Evenhanded 124
71. 53. INSIDE: No Justice in Srebrenica 127
72. 54. OUTSIDE: The Tribunal 129
73. 55. INSIDE: Waiting for the Truth 131
74. 56. OUTSIDE: Intelligence and Political Will 135
75. 57. INSIDE: Professor, Perpetrator, President 137
76. Section 8: International Inadequacies
77. 58. OUTSIDE: The Fourth Warring Party 142
78. 59. INSIDE: City Signs 144
79. 60. OUTSIDE: Out of Step 147
80. 61. INSIDE: By a Thread 149
81. 62. OUTSIDE: Missing 151
82. 63. INSIDE: Surviving the Peace 153
83. 64. OUTSIDE: Press Tour 154
84. Section 9: Women’s Initiative
85. 65. INSIDE: Organized for Action 157
86. 66. OUTSIDE: Lyons 160
87. 67. INSIDE: “What’s an NGO?” 164
88. 68. OUTSIDE: Skewed 166
89. 69. INSIDE: A League of Their Own 168
90. 70. OUTSIDE: “With All Due Respect” 171
91. Section 10: Recreating Community
92. 71. INSIDE: Beethoven’s Fifth 173
93. 72. OUTSIDE: “Neither Free Nor Fair” 176
94. 73. INSIDE: Sarajevo Red 178
95. 74. OUTSIDE: Re-leaf 180
96. 75. INSIDE: Watermelons 182
97. 76. OUTSIDE: Arizona 183
98. 77. INSIDE: Three Hundred Gold Coins 185
99. 78. OUTSIDE: Mistrust in Mostar 191
100. 79. INSIDE: New Bridges 192
101. 80. OUTSIDE: Air Force One 194
102. Bridging: Six Lessons from Bosnia
103. Introduction 199
104. 1. Test Truisms 200
105. 2. Question Stereotypes 206
106. 3. Find Out-of- Power Allies 211
107. 4. Appreciate Domestic Dynamics 216
108. 5. Find Fault 222
109. 6. Embrace Responsibility 226
110. Epilogue 235
111. Notes 239
112. Index 253
113. About the Authors 265